Drama Can Paint You Into A Corner

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The nature of the drama can paint you into a corner.

You can run with that and take the ride - and perhaps you feel you have to.

Whatever you do - do it with both feet - and check in or feel as you go. No one knows you like you do.

But the capacity to question, to listen and discern in the light of a deeper honesty of being that fear can help you open to if you face it - is to attract and align in steps that serve who you uniquely are. If you are serving the needs of another - make sure your needs are not seeking to override theirs in their name. And so also see that others who are presuming to serve you are with you.

Despite the tightening of the Net there is still a wealth if information to the willingness to be found in health. And even without out it - there are those who find inspiration to pursue a path that 'works for them'. One size does not fit all. If you cant wholeheartedly align in somthing, look more honestly at the dissonance rather than 'rulng it out'. Our own minds can work like mini-googles.

But if fear and shock prevent due diligence then the first need is to calm and centre. That may be difficult of the fears of loved ones are constantly projected onto you as demands. But there is an order of priority that works. What comes first allows all else to find its place. 

Every situation is unique. Discerning what is truly here from the fears that generate every kind of distortion is the gift of noticing. We have to at least not be set in belief against healing (wholeness of being) to let it in. So if we notice fearful belief that has no true foundation in us now - don't use it and be open to a clearer view in its own timing. Everyone has some trigger fears for nocebo effect to operate. If you have a challenge - don't frame it in fear despair. Hold the fears in trust of a clearer revealing. No one can go against their core beliefs - but they can change their core beliefs as a result of recognising they no longer truly serve.